A Little About Me
I am forty one two years old, mother to the greatest kid in the world, and engaged to deeply in love with an incredibly wonderful man who I will marry in married on March 20th of this year. I am an atheist living in the Bible Belt, and my political views are so far left that I am often called a socialist – and they say it like it’s a bad thing!
I’ve experienced quite a lot in my short time on the planet. I’d say most of it was good, because even the rotten stuff has helped me become who and what I am today, which is pretty damn good, if I say so myself.
One of the things I have learned over the years is that there is quite a lot wrong in the world. As much as we may want to improve things, though, there are certain things which will never likely change. Sometimes our only option is to vent, rant and rave, and that is the purpose of this blog.
Here is where I will ramble on about pet peeves and annoying stuff people do and how I feel things should be, always bearing in mind that these are merely my ideas of a perfect world, and most people are likely to disagree with me. Cynical? Perhaps. But this has been my experience, which is why I have decided to ramble here, where this world and I are safe from one another.
Continue reading at your own risk.




July 19, 2008 at 1:32 am
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July 25, 2008 at 10:22 pm
YAY! Another atheist living in the bible belt! Comment on my blogs anytime, ma’am! Thank you, thank you, thank you!
July 26, 2008 at 9:24 am
Hey! Thanks for stopping by! Please feel free any time.
August 14, 2008 at 7:45 am
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August 25, 2008 at 1:03 am
Hi, Lottie, thanks for the plug in your Lazy Sunday Round-up. I was disappointed not to see one today!
Of course, until Friday I hadn’t updated in weeks, so who am I to talk?
August 25, 2008 at 6:59 am
Thanks, soulbiscuit! I was a little under the weather, and also getting my son ready to start middle school today. I’ll get back to work and do another one next week.
Thanks for stopping by!
September 17, 2008 at 1:47 pm
Someday I’ll come out as the atheist I really am instead of hiding under the vague term of ‘agnostic.’ It’s hard being an atheist in the Lutheran state of Minnesota.
September 17, 2008 at 6:13 pm
I completely understand. I still don’t make a point of telling people. If I can avoid the subject entirely, that’s even better. It’s a tough world.
Hmmm… I feel a new post coming on.
October 9, 2008 at 2:08 pm
Lottie, first, congratulations on your recent nuptials!
When I was a kid, my Dad found a word in an obscure dictionary that I use to describe my religious beliefs: nullifidean.
A nullifidean has no faith. I’m not comfortable saying I’m an atheist because I don’t have an answer about the existence of a God or higher being. I just have a sense that no higher being, if (s)he exists is having any impact on my life whatsoever. So …. no need to pray … and no need to worship.
Still, it’s nice to see an avowed atheist in the blogosphere. Seems this country lately has made faith a prerequisite to participation in society. Just look at the Presidential race and the religious litmus test applied to all the candidates. Kinda disappointing if you ask me.
October 9, 2008 at 2:47 pm
Thanks for the congrats! And thanks for the encouraging words too! I don’t often hear such nice comments about my being atheist. It’s a welcome change of pace.
Yep! It literally scares me at times.
November 3, 2008 at 3:37 am
I have to say, I am deeply in love with you. Your blog is amazing.
November 3, 2008 at 7:35 am
Aw! I guess I can stop feeling hated, then.
Thank you for checking out my blog and for the nice comment.
November 23, 2008 at 4:54 pm
Hi Lottie,
I notice that you and I both made it onto someone’s “X” list. In other words, we are on their blogroll, but they have stricken through our names.
I read through a bit of the writings, and being stricken makes me proud. Sounds like an arrogant ass. However, he obviously thinks we have something to say that he is keeping track of because we are still on his blogroll.
November 23, 2008 at 7:07 pm
If it’s the one I’m thinking of, the strike just indicates visited links.
December 21, 2008 at 12:23 pm
just wanted to say hello.(always happy to see someone sincere, and comfortable in their own self-evaluation)
i freed myself from religion ages ago.
but it seems, that we are always starting from
scratch. explaining. defending. answering.
but i reward myself more and more with “earth moments”.
http://www.ANaturalPhilosophy.com
December 21, 2008 at 12:45 pm
Thanks for stopping by. Your site looks interesting. I’ll have a closer look when I’m not pressed for time.
December 22, 2008 at 11:25 am
thanks for visiting.
i read a few of your posts. like them. and will visit again to read more.
there is a lot to this life.
(not least, like minded people)
December 22, 2008 at 11:32 am
So true! And quotable too!
January 28, 2009 at 11:41 pm
I’m not sure how I missed adding you to my exquisitely exclusive blogroll but Lottie my friend you are on it now. I know, I know…no need to thank me, it is all better now.
Really, weeping like that isn’t necessary.
Congratulations,
Super J.
PS: Great posts as usual. You rock.
January 29, 2009 at 4:32 pm
I shall weep no more! Praise Super Jesus!
Thank you!
April 21, 2009 at 2:24 pm
Abraham Lincoln also said in his 2nd Inaugural Address….”The Almighty has His own purposes. “Woe unto the world because of offenses; for it must needs be that offenses come, but woe to that man by whom the offense cometh.” If we shall suppose that American slavery is one of those offenses which, in the providence of God, must needs come, but which, having continued through His appointed time, He now wills to remove, and that He gives to both North and South this terrible war as the woe due to those by whom the offense came, shall we discern therein any departure from those divine attributes which the believers in a living God always ascribe to Him? Fondly do we hope, fervently do we pray, that this mighty scourge of war may speedily pass away. Yet, if God wills that it continue until all the wealth piled by the bondsman’s two hundred and fifty years of unrequited toil shall be sunk, and until every drop of blood drawn with the lash shall be paid by another drawn with the sword, as was said three thousand years ago, so still it must be said “the judgments of the Lord are true and righteous altogether.”
With malice toward none, with charity for all, with firmness in the right as God gives us to see the right, let us strive on to finish the work we are in, to bind up the nation’s wounds, to care for him who shall have borne the battle and for his widow and his orphan, to do all which may achieve and cherish a just and lasting peace among ourselves and with all nations.”
April 22, 2009 at 10:19 am
Uh huh. And your point would be…?
April 22, 2009 at 2:50 pm
Oh, boy! Is this why your not feeling good today???
April 22, 2009 at 7:08 pm
Well, it certainly didn’t help matters! Talk about pain…